
“Every
child deserves the opportunity to have a successful early learning
experience, which is the foundation for becoming a lifelong learner,”
writes Bob Sornson, PhD, author of
The Juice Box Bully: Empowering Kids to Stand Up For Others.
“My work with the Early Learning Foundation is all about helping
parents and schools be more effective building the skills and behaviors
that help kids be successful.”
Juice Box Bully is part of my effort to teach
kids to stand up and speak up for themselves and others, build healthy
classroom and school cultures, and make the world a better place! Only
by building safe and connected cultures will we get rid of the bullying
behaviors that harm children. Punishing bullies is not enough. We must
teach our children a better way.

Have you ever seen a bully in action and done nothing about it? In
Juice Box Bully,
the kids at Pete’s new school get involved, instead of being
bystanders. When Pete begins to behave badly, his classmates teach him
about “The Promise”. Will Pete decide to shed his bullying habits and
make “The Promise”?
Bullying
behaviour comes in many shapes and sizes, and being bullied in
childhood can have lifelong effects, according to author Dr Sabina
Dosani in
Bullying (52 Brilliant Ideas) to Keep Your Child safe and Happy.
Recent UK research indicates that 1 in 4 primary school children and 1
in 10 secondary school children are bullied at least once a term.
Bullying makes children lonely, unhappy and frightened. Tackling
bullying and its side-effects can be a very delicate business, and each
case is unique. Often parents don’t know anything is wrong until events
overtake them, or they can’t think of the best way to help their child
survive the experience. Being armed with the right information about
bullying, recognising the symptoms to look out for, and knowing
effective ways of breaking the cycle of abuse can be crucial factors in
ensuring your child deals with their tormentors in a calm, positive and
proactive way. In Bullying Dr Sabina Dosani has put together 52
brilliant ideas to enable parents to help their children survive being
bullied and become stronger and more confident people as a result.
Including advice on identifying different types of bully, clever tips
for not reacting to taunts, self-defence ideas for increased confidence
and methods to take the wind out of a bully’s sails, Bullying will help
you to help your child find their own empowering way to take control of
the situation and rid themselves of the fear that being bullied can
bring. In Bullying Dr. Sabina Dosani has put together 52 brilliant ideas
to enable parents to help their children survive being bullied and
become stronger and more confident people as a result.
In
Tease Monster: A Book About Teasing Vs. Bullying (Building Relationships),
when One-of-a-Kind”is laughed at by Purple for being weird and Green
playfully calls One a klutz after tripping on the stairs, is the Tease
Monster to blame? With words of wisdom from Mom about the Tease Monster,
One discovers that teasing is part of life. And not all teasing is the
same. One learns that laughing at someone (mean teasing)has a hurtful
bite, but laughing with someone is alright when it’s not done out of
spite. This the newest book in the Building Relationships series by
Julia Cook.

Author Julia Cook has a phenomenal gift of writing books for
children! Her books teach important life skills and are written through a
child’s view of the world,” wrote Erin E. Bowden, M.S., Elementary
School Counselor.
As an Elementary School Counselor, I have incorporated many of
Julia’s books into my curriculum and must say Tease Monster is a
powerful relationship-building tool. Children will quickly learn the
power of words, how people hear things in different ways, and the
importance of laughing with someone not at them. Tease Monster should
certainly find its way onto your bookshelf if you’re a parent, school
counselor, teacher, social worker, psychologist, or pediatrician.
*****
Social issues: About one fourth of all students from
elementary age through high school are the victims of bullying and
harassment while on school property because of their race, ethnicity,
gender, disability, religion or sexual orientation. Unfortunately the
primary reason for bullying is due to something that may set themselves
apart from the norm.
According to
recent statistics,
‘gay and lesbian teens are two to three times as more likely to commit
teen suicide than other youths.’ The Bullying Statistics website
continues:
About 30 percent of all completed suicides have been related to
sexual identity crisis. Students who also fall into the gay, bisexual,
lesbian or transgendered identity groups report being five times as more
likely to miss school because they feel unsafe after being bullied due
to their sexual orientation. About 28 percent out of those groups feel
forced to drop out of school altogether. Although more and more schools
are working to crack down on problems with bullying, teens are still
continuing to bully each other due to sexual orientation and other
factors.
In a … survey about gay bullying statistics, teens
reported that the number two reason they are bullied is because of their
actual or perceived sexual orientation or gender expression. The number
one reason reported was because of appearance. Teens are at a pivotal
point in their young adult lives when they are trying to find out who
they are and who they are about to become as adults. This is why being
teased, bullied and harassed is something that could negatively affect a
person’s self-esteem and view of themselves for the rest of their life.
In fact, about 9 out of 10 LGBT teens have reported being bullied at
school within the past year because of their sexual orientation,
according to the most recent gay bullying statistics.
Out of those numbers, almost half have reported being physically
harassed followed by another quarter who reported actually being
physically assaulted. Unfortunately most teens who experience bullying
of any kind are reluctant to share their experience or report the
incident to a teacher or trusted adult. Even more unfortunate are the
gay statistics that report a lack of response among those teachers and
school administration. According to a recent statistic, out of the
students that did report a harassment or bullying situation because of
their sexuality, about one third of the school staff didn’t do anything
to resolve the issue.
Here are some other numbers:
- About 42 percent of kids have been bullied while online with one in four being verbally attacked more than once.
- About 35 percent of kids have been threatened online.
- About 58 percent of kids and teens have reported that something mean has been said about them or to them online.
- Other bullying statistics show that about 77 percent of students
have admitted to being the victim of one type of bullying or another.
- The American Justice Department bullying statistics show that one
out of ever 4 kids will be bullied sometime throughout their
adolescence.
- 46 percent of males followed by 26 percent of females have admitted
to being victims in physical fights as reported in one report of
bullying statistics by the Bureau of Justice School.
Other bullying facts:
- As these bullying statistics indicate, bullying is just getting
worse in American schools. Many studies have shown that increasing
domestic violence at home are leading to an increase in bullying online
and at school.
- Researchers note that one way to help begin to lower these bullying statistics is to tell an adult when it is happening.
- According to the i-Safe American survey of students bullying
statistics, about 58 percent of kids admit to never telling an adult
when they’ve been the victim of a bullying attack.
- Another way to stay safe from bullies is to inform the school if the
attacks are taking place on school property or have something to do
with the school.
- Ignore messages sent by cyber bullies.
See also:
Bullying 101: The Facts About Bullying, by E.M. Lemus.
Are you tired of sitting idly by while bullying becomes more and more
frequent in the lives of our young people? The statistics around
bullying are staggering. This book will provide information that you
need to stop being a bystander and become a key player in helping to end
the bully cycle. Learn about the different types of bullying, how to
identify it and the laws that currently surround this epidemic by
becoming a part of the revolution that says enough is enough.
As an added bonus, the last chapter will give you specific
information regarding your state’s laws and what actions they are
taking, if any, to combat this issue.